Are you frustrated with the dating scene? Do you want to attract a beautiful caring woman into your life or do you simply want to date around and have some fun? Regardless, before you give up, there are some things you can do that will improve your chances of connecting with the woman or women you want and help you find someone that is right for you. Here are the three best tips for finding and attracting the women:
1. Use online dating services.
For some, online dating services still have a stigma. Some have heard all the horror stories out there and think that you couldn’t possibly find great dates online. Then there’s the technologically unsavvy who just aren’t sure what to do.
There are many great and reputable dating sites available, and some are even free. You can even find dating sites that are related to specific niches like race or military, and these are only a few of the niche sites available.
It’s easy to get started. All you have to do is sign up for an account. Many of these sites offer tons of dating tips to help you get started and create a great dating profile as well as learn how to connect with women you want to connect with.
2. Get your act together.
The thing that guys don’t want to hear is that we attract what we are. If you’re struggling financially, or you have an addiction or other problems, this is exactly the type of women you will attract. If you want to attract the right woman, you must first be what she will find attractive. Women want men who are mentally and financially stable. It’s the way they’re programmed. Guys want women who make them feel calm, happy and safe.
If you’re not attracting the type of woman you want, then maybe it’s time to take an honest look at your life and then evaluate where you’re really at. If your finances aren’t in order, or you need to a better job, then work on fixing those things. It may take some time especially if you have neglected those things. Maybe you need to work on your appearance or deal with some type of addiction. If so, then do it because it’s the only way to get the woman that is really right for you.
3. Set a high value for yourself.
Self esteem is an issue for both men and women. Guys want a woman that knows her worth. At the same time, if you want the right woman to value you, then you need to first value yourself. That means working on your self esteem if you need to. I know it’s not easy. At the same time it is worth it because just like getting your life together will help you attract the right women, so will having value for yourself.
That’s not to say you won’t attract those who aren’t good for you. We all do that. The value of having high self esteem is that you will be able to recognize when a woman isn’t good for you and avoid getting involved with her in the first place.